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Are We Becoming Soft?

Updated: Apr 11, 2023

I can't help but wonder...

Is the world hard or people are becoming soft?


It seems like every day there's a new article about how the world is too tough for the current generation, how everyone gets a participation trophy, and how no one knows how to handle failure anymore. But is that really the case?

I believe that difficulties and challenges we face in the world are often the result of our own vulnerabilities, weaknesses, and lack of resilience. In other words, the world is tough and unforgiving because we as human beings are often too soft or unprepared to face its challenges.

This idea can be applied to a variety of different contexts. For example, in personal relationships, we may find ourselves struggling to navigate conflicts or communicate effectively because we are afraid of being vulnerable or hurting others' feelings. In the workplace, we may struggle to take on new challenges or assert ourselves because we lack confidence or fear failure.

On a broader level, the idea that the world is hard because people are soft can also be applied to larger social and political issues, such as inequality, poverty, and conflict.

In these cases, we may be failing to address these problems effectively because of our own biases, prejudices, and lack of empathy for those who are struggling.

While this idea can be seen as a critique of human nature and our limitations, it can also be a call to action to develop greater resilience, empathy, and compassion. By recognizing our own weaknesses and vulnerabilities, we can work to strengthen our capacity to face challenges and adversity, and to support others who are struggling. Through this process of growth and self-reflection, we can begin to make the world a little less hard, and a little more compassionate and supportive.

At the end of the day, it's not about being tough or soft. It's about being human, and treating ourselves and others with kindness and empathy and remember that it's okay to be both strong and vulnerable at the same time.




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