Ask Me No Questions And I Tell You No Lies

If they lying about little things, they lying about plenty of things.

It got me thinking...

In a world full of fake news, alternative facts, and half-truths, honesty seems like a rare commodity. And yet, it's something that we all crave, whether we realize it or not. As the saying goes, "Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies." But what happens when people start lying about the little things? Can we still trust them when it comes to the big stuff?

It's a question that's been on my mind lately, as I've encountered more than my fair share of people who seem to have a casual relationship with the truth. They lie about their whereabouts, their interests, their accomplishments - things that might seem inconsequential in the grand scheme of things. But as I've learned, if they're lying about the little thing, they're probably lying about plenty of other thing too.

Lying is like building a house of cards - it may look impressive at first glance, but it's fragile and unsustainable. Eventually, one false move and the whole thing comes crashing down.

The thing about lying is that it can cause significant psychological damage. For the person doing the lying, it can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety. They may feel like they're living a double life, always on edge, never knowing when they'll be caught in a lie. And over time, this can take a toll on their mental health. And it is very hard to remember lies...

For the person on the receiving end of the lies, the damage can be even more severe. They may start to question their own judgment, wondering if they're being too trusting or naive. They may feel like they're being gaslit, manipulated, or even emotionally abused. And over time, this can erode their self-esteem, their sense of trust, and their ability to form healthy relationships.

But here's the thing - honesty isn't just about telling the truth. It's about being authentic, vulnerable, and real. It's about being willing to show up as yourself, flaws and all, and to trust that the people who matter will accept you for who you are.

I've found that the people who are the most honest are also the most interesting, the most engaging, and the most fun to be around. They're not afraid to share their quirks and their passions, their hopes and their fears. And when they do, it creates a connection that is based on trust and authenticity.

So, the next time you encounter someone who seems to be lying about the little stuff, ask yourself - do you really want to invest your time and energy in someone who can't be honest with you? And the next time you're tempted to stretch the truth, ask yourself - what am I really afraid of? Is it worth sacrificing my integrity for?

Honesty is always the best policy. As the great philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche once said, "I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you."

So, ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies? No thanks. I'd rather be honest, vulnerable, and real. It's better for my mental health, and it's better for my relationships.